I’m sad and
happy at the same time. Sad to say
goodbye to my new-found friends: lions and zebras and rhinos and giraffes and
elephants and wildebeests and cheetahs and leopards and buffalo and hippos and
crocodiles (okay, I’m not so sad to say goodbye to them!) and water otters and
goats and puppies and cats and jackals and steenboks and springboks and kudu
and orecs. And I’m sad to leave the
gorgeous GORGEOUS country of red earth, red sunsets, green trees, yellow
bushes, purple flora, blue skies, and black nights peppered with white
stars. It’s such an amazing,
spectacular, beautiful, peaceful, chaotic, aggressive, competitive,
soul-searching, mystical, puzzling place. I know it will take years for me to be able to succinctly describe
our time here. Because at this
point, I’m still at a loss of words to sum it up. I’ll say, “it was awesome! It was incredible!
It was spectacular!” and
that won’t even begin to adequately describe this journey. We had moments of awe, moments of
surprise, moments of laughter, moments of sadness, moments of frustration,
moments of sheer joy, moments of peace, moments of discovery, moments of
speechlessness, moments of experiences that will never be able to be described
in words but simply by our memory, and moments of absolute gratitude that we
can experience such an array of emotions in such an amazing place.
I loved that I
was able to witness a mother rhino step in front of her baby because she
thought we were a threat, and I love that I rafted down the Zambezi River (even
though I caught a cold after!). I
love that we were a half of a day ahead of the rest of everyone back on the western side of the world. I love
that everyone we met were thrilled to welcome us to their country. I love that a lion growled at me, a
shark charged at me, and an elephant threw a temper tantrum (maybe) because of what I
said. I love that our friends Ron
and Anya took so much time to research our trip so that we could see so much of
a country we knew nothing about; and then took us to their home so we could see
their life with their families. I
love that I almost couldn’t climb through a cave but in the end had my husband
give me the push I needed to climb up into bigger spaces. I love that we ate our way through
Barcelona and that I’m still dreaming
of Iberican ham. I love that I
walked across Abbey Road and thought of the 4 iconic musicians that have
certainly shaped my musical knowledge.
I love that I spent countless hours on a plane with Matt, on our way to
explore new lands together. I love
that I got to snuggle with little Aidan and Jules (Ron’s niece) and Frank and
Chelsea (Ron’s parent’s pups). I
love that I got to drink bottles of wine for $2 a pop, and cappuccinos for
$1.80 a pop. I love that we saw
the top of Table Mountain and Cape Town over the clouds. I love witnessing the pride South Africans have of their country. I love that we ate so much meat that I truly could not ingest another bite. I love that I swam in the Indian Ocean. I love that we sat around campfires and stared into the flames without saying a word. I love that on our last day in South Africa, we witnessed 3
elephants walking through the plains.
I love that I was able to spend time in a watering hole, waiting for
wildlife to come and drink water but really it was just a way for me to take a
moment to reflect on the blessings of my life, including this vacation. I love that I was able to spend the
last 6 weeks with some of the best friends Matt and I could ever ask for. And I love that through these friends,
we were able to meet new friends in new places.
I will forever
be truly grateful for this experience.
I know it’s changed me.
It’s changed me in the ways that I may not be able to verbally
describe; and yet, those around me may be able to just know that I’m a little
different. We as Americans are
truly, truly blessed
in our lives. We may have a messed
up government that can’t get off their asses to agree on the important things
in our country, and we may have simple stupid issues on a daily basis that we
deem as “important” or “awful” or “life-changing”, but the reality is, we have
it really easy. Even our
low-income citizens have a much better opportunity in succeeding than
high-income Africans. And our
freedom is truly real: we can go anywhere. Literally and
figuratively. We have the means to
travel the world and the world welcomes us with open arms. And more importantly, we can see a
world that so many people will never know.
I’ve seen poor
villages and I’ve seen prospering villages. I’ve seen people in utter poverty, and I’ve seen people who,
according to our standards, are poor but according to theirs, have everything
they could ever want. I’ve seen
the innocence in children in Africa like I’ve seen the innocence in children in
the US. I’ve seen sheer joy and
I’ve seen struggle. And I’ve seen
normal people, living their life on a daily basis, just like we do back
home.
I think that’s
what struck me most about life in Africa: the normalcy that, with a few
exceptions (some minor, some major), is very similar to life back home. We are all just living our lives. Making the most with what we’ve
got. And it doesn’t matter if
you’re in Africa, America, Europe or Canada, we are all just trying to
survive. Some are doing it much
better than others, and there are plenty of people in the world who choose to
spend their time on this earth doing things that the rest of us question, but
for the most part, all money aside, we are all trying to live our lives the
best way we know how.
It may be a
naïve statement, and maybe I’m giving some people more credit than they deserve, but
from what I’ve observed the last six weeks, more people than not are just doing
their everyday thing: working, raising a family, providing, socializing with family and friends, etc. There were plenty of
people we met who live in a house smaller than our boat and wish for nothing
more; and there are people we’ve met who live in a house bigger than 10 of our
boats and always want a little more than what they have.
And if it’s in the US or Africa, it’s the same thing. The language may be different, the governments more or less corrupt, and the freedoms more or less limiting, but in the end, we are all on the same planet, trying to make our way the best way we know how.
I had a lot of expectations of this vacation, most of them involving animals and assuming that I would know how to experience this place, simply because of the fact that I didn't know what the place would offer me. And in the end, my expectations, while surpassed for the most part, were definitely redefined once I realized that I had no concept of this part of the world, and it is better to let the expectations fall by the wayside and just allow the surroundings take me in and show me where I am.
Wow. An absolutely, utterly amazing few weeks we've had in this beautiful part of the world.
I did mention
that I was happy to see the end of this trip, didn’t I?
I’m happy to
get back to our home country, where we know the rules, we know the language, we
know the “ins” and we know that we will drive on the right side of the
road. There’s something to be said
about going “home.” And the more
you travel, the more comfortable coming home feels. Not to mention, I’m very excited to begin the next chapter
of our life. And taking this trip
helped me to get more prepared for the next adventure: spending a year off the
boat, away from our business, and focusing on the next phase of our life. It’s a little scary, but I think taking
this time to explore new worlds helped me to feel more confident in myself with
pursuing this next adventure.
And so, it is
with a heavy heart that I say farewell to Africa, but it is with all the love
in my heart that I say, with confidence, I will see you again.
Because we WILL be back.